Surprisingly a great deal of men come to me while they are still in a relationship; sometimes even in a relationship that they want to keep. Even though I am a dating coach for men; I really am a Coach for Men to Achieve Happiness.

The main differences between a relationship coach and a dating coach for men is that a relationship coach is going to attempt to save the relationship at almost all costs, where as a dating coach is going to be concerned with the man's happiness first then the relationship.

Many may argue that mans happiness should be sacrificed for the good of the relationship; this might be true however too many times many sacrifice simply for the happiness of the woman. To me this is totally unacceptable and should not be tolerated by any man under any circumstance.

For example a woman who is not sexually satisfying her man after giving birth is acceptable.

A woman who chooses not to sexually satisfy her man because she is tired after work is not acceptable.

Ironically most of the single men that I have coached who end up in serious relationships tend to have very strong and healthy relationships with the women they choose because the men where able to come form a position of strength when choosing the woman of their choice.

Yet, men in relationships that I have coached who choose to end their relationship with a woman. Did so because they entered the relationship from a position of weakness and the dynamics of the relationship where destroyed when the man began coming from a position of strength.

Then there are also the men in relationships that I have coached who choose to stay in the relationship mainly because the women in these relationships where frustrated not because they wanted the power, but because they wanted a man who was able to come form a position of strength even if they said otherwise.

If you are a man who is considering getting counseling for your relationship, may I suggest that you also consider getting individual coaching as well. Although neither a relationship nor dating coach can guarantee you that your relationship will be saved.

What I can do as your dating coach is give you the beliefs and tools to begin leading your life from a position of strength which in turn will lead to your happiness.